When Being Believed Too Quickly Becomes Dangerous
16 January 2026
In last week’s “Coaching Corner” we explored the Cassandra Effect: seeing clearly but not being believed.
I always find it so interesting and useful to also think about the other side of the coin, so today let’s consider the inverse effect.
When someone is believed too quickly … without enough challenge, inquiry, or evidence.
This happens more often than we like to admit.
The confident voice in the room.
The senior title.
The persuasive story told at just the right moment.
Everyone nods.
Momentum builds.
And suddenly, an idea becomes a truth, just because it ‘felt right’.
In coaching and leadership, this is dangerous territory, because unquestioned belief:
- Short-circuits critical thinking
- Silences dissent
- Rewards certainty over curiosity
- Turns confidence into authority
There is an absolute irony to this, of course:
Groups are often most vulnerable when alignment comes too easily.
Good coaching slows this moment down.
It asks:
“What assumptions are we making here?”
“What evidence would challenge this view?”
“Who hasn’t spoken yet?”
“What might we be missing?”
True leadership doesn’t rush into agreements.
It creates space for healthy friction, alternative perspectives, and thoughtful pause.
A minute spent in planning saves countless minutes in execution.
Insight doesn’t come from being believed, it comes from being examined.
Sometimes the bravest move isn’t speaking up when no one listens…
It’s inviting challenge when everyone already agrees.
Remember, the path to extraordinary is walked with a thousand small steps, and you’re doing great!
Barry Marshall-Graham
Executive coach and leadership advisor
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