WritingMonday Deep Dive

Spend Your Attention Wisely

2 June 2025

Reclaim Your Focus in an Ever More Distracting World

productivity leadership

“The truth is, you are not failing to focus. Your focus is being stolen.”

- Johann Hari

We’re all familiar with time management. But how often do we speak about attention management?

In Johann Hari’s Stolen Focus, he makes a compelling case: the real scarcity we face isn’t time … its capacity.

Think of a “normal” day for us, filled with endless pings, shifting priorities, and dopamine-triggering digital distractions

Our ability to focus has been hijacked.

Hijacked by the systems, technologies, and cultural norms we’ve built around us.

For leaders, creatives, professionals, and parents alike, this isn’t just a productivity issue - it’s an existential one.

Because how we use our attention shapes who we become.

Learning to Spend Wisely

As you have read in previous articles, for a very (VERY) long time, I wore busyness as a badge.

Back-to-back meetings. Constant inbox checking. Jumping between tools, platforms, channels … trying to keep up, to stay ahead, to be involved in the detail, and to have it all when it was requested.

But I noticed something:

The more I did, the less I thought.

The more I responded, the less I reflected.

I was confusing motion with momentum; noise with importance.

Reading Stolen Focus by Johann Hari, reminded me that being present isn’t indulgent. It’s essential.

As their leader, my teams do not want me to simply react. They trust me to think.

And that requires space.

So now, I protect that space more fiercely.

Not perfectly. But intentionally.

What follows are some of my thoughts and reflections on Stolen Focus.

Focus Isn’t Just a Skill. It’s an Environment

Hari draws attention to something most of us feel but struggle to name: that focus is less about personal discipline and more about environmental design.

We live in a culture engineered to fragment our minds.

Algorithms thrive on outrage. Notifications demand urgency. Tasks are stacked on tasks, layered with meetings, messages, and more messages about the meetings.

Our focus, therefore is not lost … it’s stolen from us.

The more we pretend this is a personal failing, the more we allow the true culprits to escape scrutiny.

Leadership insight: Instead of asking, “How can my team focus more?”, ask, “What’s stealing their focus … and how can I resolve it?”

The Myth of Infinite Capacity

Hari reminds us of an uncomfortable truth: we are finite.

Our attention has a limit.

Our energy has a ceiling.

Our minds cannot multitask effectively, no matter how much we believe otherwise.

Trying to keep up with everything (every update, every demand, every change in priority) isn’t at all noble.

It’s absolutely unsustainable.

The brain fatigues, our mind scatters, and slowly, so does our sense of self.

If we treat our attention like an unlimited resource, we’ll spend it on everything … and invest it in nothing.

Coaching prompt: Where are you leaking attention? What would it look like to spend it like it mattered?

Technology Isn’t Neutral

One of Hari’s most striking assertions is that technology isn’t passive, it’s persuasive.

Most platforms don’t exist to serve your focus. They exist to monetise your distraction. Every swipe, like, ping, and scroll is carefully engineered to keep you on platform, in loop, out of depth.

You become a Doom Scroller.

This doesn’t mean we should go off-grid completely.

It means we need to become conscious of designing our tools - not being designed by them.

Do your tools support deep work, or fast reactions?
Do they facilitate meaningful connection, or just constant availability?
Does that email you are reading need your attention, or is someone making the basic declaration that “look, I too am busy”

Leadership reflection: What digital norms exist in your team? Do you celebrate responsiveness over reflection? Activity over focus?

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The Loss of Deep Thinking

At the heart of Stolen Focus is a loss we don’t talk about enough: the ability to think deeply.

When our attention is shattered, so is our capacity to reflect, to imagine, to make sense of complexity.

We skim. We scroll. We react.

But depth?

Depth takes stillness. Spaciousness. Time without interruption.

People today need depth more than ever. In a world of speed, wisdom becomes the differentiator.

And wisdom cannot be rushed.

Team insight: What rhythms in your culture promote surface over substance? Where might you make room for slow, uninterrupted thought?

The Path Back to Attention

Hari doesn’t just diagnose the problem. He offers a path forward.

Reclaiming our focus is possible, but it isn’t found doing more.

It’s found doing less, better.

Create spaces for deep work. At least a few hours a week.
Normalise digital hygiene … like email-free periods (in my own case sometimes days) or meeting-free mornings.
Protect time for rest, because cognitive renewal isn’t optional.
Encourage mono-tasking … it’s where true quality lives.
Shift cultural norms - from “always on” to “thoughtfully present.”

And most of all: treat your attention like it’s sacred.

Because it is.

Reflection Prompts

Where is your attention most often pulled … and is it aligned with your values?

What systems or habits are stealing focus from you, and/or the people around you?

What does “enough” look like when it comes to work, screen time, or availability?

How would your life change if you prioritised depth over speed?

What boundaries or rhythms could you reintroduce to protect your capacity?

Final Thought

We protect what we value.

We lock away our money, insure our homes, and safeguard our passwords.

But what about the one thing we spend every minute of our lives using?

Attention is not just a tool … it’s the foundation of choice, presence, and power.

You can’t work well if your mind is somewhere else.

You can’t live fully if your focus is always stolen.

So take it back.

Bit by bit.

Not with guilt, with grace.

Because what you attend to intentionally, becomes what you become.

Remember, the path to extraordinary is walked with a thousand small steps, you’re doing great!

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Your Small Steps

How do I know if I’m overwhelmed or just busy?

Overwhelm tends to feel like fragmentation. A sense that you’re reacting more than thinking, that nothing is ever quite finished, and everything feels urgent.

Action: Try a focus audit: for two days, track your attention in 30-minute blocks. See what’s reactive vs. intentional.